We're getting ready to let go of Ava's paci. And all you moms understand what I mean when I say "WE" instead of just "Ava."
I've been trying to talk to Ava about it.
"Ava, pretty soon you'll be big like Addy and Brynne and not need your paci." (her cousins)
"In a little while we'll say 'by,by paci.' "
"You're so big, you don't need your paci anymore."
You get the point.
Ava's responses have been a little humerous.
First time I brought it up she responded with a simple "no please."
Kind of like she thought "that was the end of that."
The next day I heard, "No. Ava. Paci. Mouth."
Yesterday it was, "No. Ava need paci."
That one stopped me in my tracks.
My 2 yr old child, on her own, just informed me that she "NEEDS" her paci. Where do they learn this stuff?
But truth be told, this mommy is learning she kind of needs it to.
Daddy thinks it's time.
I told him fine. He can stay home from work the week we take it away. I'll go stay at my sisters and sleep. : )
But he's right.
It is time. And it isn't going to get easier.
But I'm getting nervous to mess with my peaceful afternoons.
I revamped all girls' sleeping schedules slightly and usually get at least an hour and a half of all 3 girls sleeping every afternoon and sometime 2+ hours.
It's blissful.
It preserves my sanity.
I NEED it. : )
However, I don't want a 5 year old with a paci.
I do know the misery is usually always short lived.
And I'd like to take the paci away before I fully dive into potty training and that I don't want to keep putting off as I have a ready daughter.
I had been thinking I was going to take the plunge this thursday. But we have plans thursday night and a wedding sunday. Neither one sounds fun to have a whiny, over-tired child who hasn't napped well/slept well to deal with.
So I'm starting to think maybe next week.
But I've been saying this for a month as I keep coming up with plans still to come that it sounds easier to HAVE a paci along for than NOT.
I then justify it with the fact that she only is allowed her paci while in bed sleeping.
Hmmm . . .we have a trip up north on Labor day a paci sure would be nice for.
You get the point. : )
So all you moms who have gone before, pour on the advice.
What worked?
What didn't?
How long?
I want it all - the good, the bad AND the ugly. : )
Of course, worst thing that happens is you all tell me to let her keep the paci until she's 5 which she will then sweetly go over to the trash and throw it away and our lives will continue on in blissful peacefulness undisturbed (with unaffected teeth as well).
I'm waiting!